but seriously, props up dude – i’ve been hangin myself up to dry for quite some time now (i’ve lost track) so i really have to hand it to ya and thanks for sharing!

if u need a buddy to rock it out next wkd with who wants to stay just as sober – u just found one!!!!

Part of this exercise is re-learning how to be comfortable in your own skin without alcohol. But it’s also a lesson in the more subtle, morally ambiguous roles a “vice” might play in your life.

I am related to a number of addicts, all of whom are totally at the mercy of their substances and whose lives depend on their ability to abstain.

I’m pretty sure you’re not one of those guys. How do I know? When your habits were at their worst (and only you know how bad they truly were), you chose to change them – not to save your life at the behest of a doctor, but because you are always striving to be a better man, and sloppiness don’t suit you. It’s the difference between “hitting rock bottom” and “wanting something better.”

There are many activities that hold potential for both gain and harm. The alchemy of drugs and alcohol is delicate and dangerous. But just because a substance (or activity, or item) holds potential for abuse, doesn’t (necessarily) mean you should cut it out of your life. Ideally, you’ll treat that item with respect and use it as a tool, not a crutch. But you already know this!

I guess what I’m saying is: when you do decide to reintroduce alcohol selectively into your gastric repertoire, there will be no way it can harm you, because you will know only and exactly when to say “yes.” That kind of wisdom is worth the sacrifice of a year. And you will not have “failed” for sharing a drink with your friends in your own good time.

Unless we talk you into doing kegstands and put the videos on YouTube.